You get the point. I like to make my own moves and be responsible for my own destiny.
However, for the past few years, everyone has been talking about the value of locating mentors.
It sounds good but, I'm not accustomed to receiving advice or working closely with someone.
So, my version of the mentoring game is to subscribe to various newsletters. I take aspects from various people and put them together. Soft of like the old Mr. PotatoHead toys.
I'm on about 50 lists and most of my defacto-mentors fall into two major categories:
1. Internet marketers/software developers.
2. Top shelf bloggers.
(These categories have some overlap. But I think I can drive home the point with clarity.)
The internet marketers and developers promote their offerings on sites like jvzoo and the warrior forum. They are aggressive, bold, sometimes spammy, but effective.
I like the fact they have created a cartel of sorts within their industry.
It's kind of like the rap music industry.
Sometimes, rappers are competing against each other or threatening each other's lives.
Other times, they will do songs and tours together.
These marketers are all competing for the same customers. But there are times they will work together to promote a software launch.
I really admire this spirit of co-opetition. It's one of the things I'd like to inject into my business model.
Josh Zamora and Sam Bakker are my two favs in this genre.
When I think of top-shelf bloggers, I envision someone generating enough traffic and engagement to make a high salary off of traffic and engagement.
They have perfectly optimized articles. Their SEO game is ethical. They are well respected.
Instead of sending email newsletters promoting a product, they send notices when they post a new blog article.
Obviously, once you visit the site, they have products and services for sale. This is an effective method as well.
My favorite bloggers are Matthew Woodward and Neil Patel.
Now that we have figured out where I'm getting my mentoring from, let's tie this thing up.
I don't have the tech connections to compete with Zamora and Bakker.
I don't have the SEO knowledge and support staff to compete with Woodward and Patel.
However, I do have the creativity to borrow bits and pieces from all of them and create my own path.
I was discussing my online ventures with a buddy a few days ago. He is one of these people who only uses the internet to check his email and watch things I won't discuss in polite company.
Because he doesn't really follow my content, he can't get a feel for what I'm doing.
He asked," So, are you the only person who has this technology? Or is this something everybody is doing?"
My reply, "A lot of people have the same software I'm promoting/developing. But I'm the only person in the world who is doing it like me."
My unconventional methods and approach are my core competencies.
Without those, I'm just another big dreamer with a Chromebook.